The only times I've ever sat in a queue for an MMO were back during Vanilla WoW... at raiding times I'd wait about an hour maybe less to get in, but since I was usually on early any way it was never a big problem.
But waiting over and hour or two hours, which is what I think my current queue will run, is a bit ridiculous. I understand they want to make sure all the servers get a nice population of people, but a lot of them have an "estimated time" of 10+ minutes, which probably averages out to be 30 or more. They need to do something quickly, especially since the game hasn't even officially launched yet and it's this bad, or on the 20th the queue times will may skyrocket further and people who haven't had EA or Beta will not want to wait 5+ hours to play a game they are paying money for. Increase the cap on the servers or offer free transfers to new servers for all guild members/friends.
Come on, Bioware, this is a great game. Don't make me hate it because of queue times!
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Also a grace period for those disconnected would be nice!