As much as I think a toggle is entirely unnecessary, seeing as any OPTION relating to "romance" is an OPTION already, if they DID add a toggle I fully expect they do indeed keep it fair, and add one for both hetro and homosexual relationships.
Since the relationships are personal only, there is no legitimate reason for anyone to care about the existence of a toggle, anyway. IMHO.
That said, I really like my Operative, and I really would like an update on the SGRA, because until I know if I can pursue Kaliyo or not, I just ... don't want to carry on the story.