I feel your pain, I was extremely happy to get my two names on Rubat when it first started - as was my husband, these are characters we've played in games and RP's for quite a few years now, we logged in to save our names as soon as we could and were over joyed when we got them...
And now our server looks like it's going to be a desolate wasteland because everyone is jumping ship. I don't want to move to a new server, I've been on Rubat since day one, I don't want to deal with Ques and lag and I most definitely don't want to loose my name, legacy name or guild name.
So my guild is staying on Rubat. It'll be a dead server I suppose and most likely we'll be forced to move someday when they cull servers. It's a sad sad day and I had such high hopes for this game.