by 1st dark side flirt do you mean the time <spoiler> when you return to your ship and find her captured by a sith?<spoiler> Dont remember whether I received a DS point by flirting there.

I am not sure whether it been said before (tried to read all posts) but it may have something to do with whether you joined the beta(s) or not too. so some people joined the betas might have earlier access than others, just an opinion tho. 11/29 not in btw.