I was completely unaware of this, as it is not explained anywhere i could see and read (or not known of where it could be read. Which i guess is acceptable.
As for the last part, i was fully aware of the hassle, and was just thinking there could be a way that was only between friends, like both parties have to have the other one their friends list to make it possible. Maybe an option to not allow it on, or an option to allow it. I would think Similar to PVP, getting it checked to allow some more randomness.
Maybe it dont have to be limited to Stealth, like i said earlier, but... It would be good to allow people on your ship, that more open to just people who are in your group. Allowing for more social self made events, maybe. I am just trying to open more doors of entertainment, with the suggestion, not trying to complicate things
I made the original stealth comment, because i randomly said it out loud in DK, and was told it was a great idea and i should post it. If most of it already exists, im just a victim of a troll (unfortunately)