This. I have maybe 2 hours every other day to play (full time student/work/husband/father of three) and its not practical for me to spend more than half of that time in que. Its also not an option to call my wife and tell her to put me in que before I get home. I've been to five launches, EQ, WoW, SWG, GW, and Rift so I'm aware of what can happen. This game, how ever, had a great stress test and is now falling on its face. The only thing I can think of is that they are keeping a low pop cap on the current servers to allow for growth during launch. It has to be fixed though. You also have to think of the friends we will try to recruit into the game. They probablywill want to play on the same server...
Warning: My thoughts are a bit disjointed, I've slept 6 hours in the past three days.