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LittleLummo

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  1. I for one would be interested in finding an LGBT-friendly guild (not LGBT-only) because if I talk about the new romance with either Theron or Lana, I get a lot of backlash from guildies who are uncomfortable with the romance options.

     

    If I mention friends of mine who are gay and married, (eg. if I say "his husband" I often have to clarify that yes, they are gay) and then listen to a guildie who feels that it's briefly necessary to tell me that he's straight or doesn't "swing that way".... even if the conversation wasn't a question of his sexuality at all.

     

    I invited my friends to that guild, and they later ended up leaving because they didn't feel welcome. Not everyone in this guild is like that, but we don't comment on the ones who are because it's just accepted that they're maybe a tad bit homophobic, yet we're expected to not bring it up and make sure they're comfortable.

     

    A lot of our male guildies have female toons with skimpy gear, which I love, but if I put one of my male toons in something that shows too much leg or tummy, they comment on how "weird" it is for a male character to look like that.

     

    I'm not even looking to hook up with anyone (I'm a paranoid shut-in who doesn't meet people online), but it would be nice to connect with a fellow gamer, and be able to talk about anything without being harassed because it's "unusual" to someone.

     

    It's sad that guild seems to be like that, I guess it highlights how different places can be, my guilds on ToFN(and basically most of the active PvP community on that server:p) know about my sexuality and I have never had reason to feel uncomfortable, everyone I talk to really is happy to socialise with me and a lot of the straight guys don't mind flirting with me (messing around ofc), and many are curious about my real life relationships too just as they can be about straight relationships. The guilds aren't LGBT etc but just generally very open minded and accepting, as most people on ToFN seem to be if i'm honest (even the biggest trolls included) :D

  2. thumbrule : never post pics of youself on the internet, facebook doesn't count xD

    And judging from all the love i get from you guys i don't think its a good idea, i dont wanna end up as a daily pvp soundboard thingy xD

     

    Hahaha, I guess you do have a point there:p Would you not want to be a famous icon like dailypvp then? :D

  3. Well, the MVPs might be great in normals, but it's yoloqueue where they really are needed. Also, MVPs don't bring enough drama to the server. Try to be arrogant or something, might help a little :p

     

    (or should we just wish for Basaz to come back? Might be better)

     

    But we like to be spr nice. I do agree some dramz would be cool though:cool:

  4. PVP is, atleast IMO and most others I speak to pretty balanced if you play both sides. Both can have bad pugs just as easily and both have premades. Also of course imp is always gonna be more active, it always has been, but rep certainly isn't dying :p
  5. Pff, I blame Zavvi's healing those games. If he had the skills to do 4k hps as Seer we would be fine and Borgoffs dots wouldn't be a problem at all. Or your uncleansable loving against me. :(

     

    Why me? :( Not like i'm the only healer! FYI I have done 4.5k hps as Seer but sadly my screencap magically disappeared.

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