Tough to have any sympathy honestly. When I had to move from Master something or another server to Drooga's I lost all my names. Then another server merger from Drooga's to Harbinger happened. I thought, "Great", I actually had placeholders with my original names on Harbinger that I created during early access.
Welp, come transfer time I lost all the placeholder names I had on Harbinger, but did get to keep some of my renames. Yeah, that pretty much sucked.
Oh and the name, Tristan (my forum handle), you cannot have in game as it come up invalid. Go figure. But as a bonus, since Bioware switched log ins from email to forum name, I get around 5 emails a week where someone is trying to reset my password. Thanks for that!