Just want to say what being in the Elders guild is like for me. I'm old and know how to yell "get off my lawn!". That is about as drama-filled as this guild gets. It's a relaxed, safe place to play either solo or in a group. We try to reach our conquest goal each week but nobody asks us to do that. If we don't reach it, then no big deal. If we do reach it, then great. There are no quotas to fill, no obligations (other than being nice to each other), no pressure. Just have fun and enjoy the game.
We have a Friday night 16 man training run for everybody. If you're new to the game, or back from an absence, or want to try a new class or spec or whatever, then these runs are for you. It's always a story mode op and we bring just enough heavy hitters to help us through without actually carrying everyone.
If you want stress and drama, then this guild is not for you. If you want a safe place to play, to learn, to have fun, then this guild is definitely for you. One of our main rules is that real life always comes first. You can play around your real life schedule and nobody yells at you for that. This is the safest guild I've ever belonged to and plan to stay for as long as I"m playing swtor.