I'm curious, once you join the jedi, are you allowed to leave? I mean, they do forcibly conscript people at a young age, what if they decide they don't want to be jedi? Also, if you're an adult (or at least old enough to reason) and you're asked to join, can you say that you don't want to join?
To clarify, by leaving I mean are you just allowed to tell your jedi master "Hey, I'm gonna leave the order now, thanks for the invite though!"; or can you only leave by fleeing the order.