So I've been playing on both the Pub and Imp side and both seem to be equal at peak times. I have met some great people on both servers and it sucks because I'm a person that has Altism. But seriously you just gotta go with it knowing that you CAN play on both sides. You just have to figure out what you want to level to end game first and then play on the other side.
At least that is what i'm trying to do.