Oh boy, ad hominem.
No, it's your fault for not working as a team. If you're a survivor on an island with 7 other strangers, and you die because you don't work together, is it luck's fault?
If a loss is inevitable, then chill out, have fun shooting at people. This quote proves it IS about the loss for you. How can you find running a ball from one end to the other any less boring than general PvP? Make the 10 minutes worthwhile. Adapt and help others farm medals.